You live life in a bubble, you take one step at a time and many of those steps are arduous and you think you'll never see the next day, but you do.
This endurance is what life is, people! You struggle and you get to see the other side. It builds character, it builds strength within us.
I have had the privilege to be given the opportunity to find myself, support myself, and renew my compassion to find camaraderie and kindred ship.
Making a connection whether it is with the opposite gender or parallel kindred ships, life is taking the time to breathe, know, love, feel, experience, suffer, flourish, revel, sorrow, happiness, regret, stupidity, all of it.
If you do not experience any of these in a one year's time, you need to.
Take the time to step out of the box, out of the bubble, seek the stage.
I just had dinner with a woman friend I hadn't seen in 9 years. We only communicated just to feel alive. And as we grew we realized every person who stays in our life is our compassionate, comrade. Because we need each other, set aside your bullshit and love yourself so you can love your friends, your family. Hell even a smile can go along way no matter who you're in front of.
What we realized is as a woman we have been hidden, set aside, put out, second in command and we take it, we accept it, we accommodate it for the good of the moment. Cuz that's what we do.
Because of this, women are developing more than statute, we are developing power that we know how to handle. Yeah, one day there will be more women running the world if not America solely based on our compassion, camaraderie, and kindred ship.
The women who can manage~not control others, are the leaders America needs, if not the world. We are out there, we don't need to scream, throw a tantrum, we are true leaders because we have made a connection, we have been hidden, set aside, and put out by our own accord and through that we have crawled out and are more of society than any other human species.
Not superior, we love to nurture, we want to give and take and debate, and learn and grow.
I have met so many wonderful female friends in the past 5 years, I am so grateful that I am a woman and I can relate to so many others' like me. Can I relate to a man, I'm not one, however, I can show empathy, sympathy, understanding, and control.
Woman to woman, you can talk, laugh, giggle, tell stories, keep secrets, share ideas, and come home feeling full, confident, ready to take on the world. I know, there are some awesome men who accommodate this trait, but very few. Love that you can be that man, but you're rare. Can you pass your greatness around to other men?
I told my long time friend as she asked, "How do you get out and meet people?" I said, "You go out thinking, I want to be like this and you act like that." Life is a stage.... happy, content...are you faking, uh., haven't we been known for faking it over the years? So this is not new, All people are set for the stage, perform and you will believe. Remember Santa Claus, believe and he will deliver.
This is not to say be fake to harm, this is to react to your negative, introverted, scared self and help yourself become the woman you have always wanted to be.
I have yet to meet a man who can show me compassion, camaraderie, and kindred ship without faltering, without becoming weak, not vulnerable, I love a vulnerable man, I'm talking about your "manhood", whoever made that shit up, wasn't a real man!
I am looking to men who are confident without control to others, compassionate without excuse, kindred without apology.
Because when both genders of our world meet with this compassion, camaraderie, and kindred ship, I can imagine a world so ripe, so bold and yet, tender, so real and open, so peaceful.
I love you man, I love you woman. I love you person.
