You reach a point in your life when you should show empathy for those in need, for your neighbor...but what if it goes wrong, somewhere that you had no intention of seeing the outcome in that empathetic start?
Women silently suffer in ways like that as we are exercising empathy. We don’t say “no” because we are looked at as being a “ bitch” (bocce), a wicked person, misunderstood, or an angry being all for reaching out and caring...albeit blindly.
Yet, this act and acts along those lines make a being, a woman in kind, stronger in our hearts and in our decisions.
I failed myself many times, duh, when will I learn! Taking in a lost friend, a lost young person, a person in need. These type of people who are needy became that way through so many avenues, I certainly am not one to judge, however...... taking the time to understand and sympathize all the while, keep an eye out for yourself.
Many good people suffer and are in need of help. Many good people suffer and retaliate onto their healer too. That’s where time and understanding calls for you, as the empathizer, to “read” the situation before blindly opening your home, your wallet, your assistance.
Don’t mistake this blog today as a denial to helping those in need, no! We all are obligated to reach out to neighbors we have experienced real life threatening need. With their approval, and that’s the key, the people in need must approve your assistance otherwise you are meddling. And then we have to turn away and rethink to understand what is needed in that situation.
Be kind, vote for the good of people, watch your government as they distribute laws to all levels of people, follow that law to its home and SMILE...death is always around the corner.
